Saturday, June 21, 2008

A Friend Who Stays

When we honestly ask which persons in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand.

The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief or bereavement, who can tolerate not-knowing, not-curing, not-healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness. . . makes it clear that whatever happens in the external world, being present to each other is what really matters.
Copyright © 2008 - Henri F. M. Nouwen.
Thanks Joel for always being a friend to me... and for being more than that!

3 comments:

coolingstar9 said...

Life is wonderful that we can share the hardship and happiness with friends.
I believe Jen and Bien are perfect lovers. Surely, your will be able to have a wonderful and fulfilling journey.
Have a nice weekend.
Best wishes from coolingstar9.
Jen, please take the biggest heart award from my blog-the biggest heart award, thanks.

Our Love Story said...

thanks a lot coolingstar... thanks for always inspiring me... i will take the award...it's my priviledge to have that! thank you so much! take care!

bluedreamer27 said...

and we are very luckey to find one truth honest and a loyal friend right