I always believe that everyday is a once in a lifetime experience. We often take for granted the things we can do today to show and express our love for someone. Presence is very important but it is not the only point where love grows. While the feeling of being in-love is very important, it is how you express it that really matters. Sharing the best of what we have and who we are to the person we love play a major role in establishing and making a relationship work. I wonder how about those who are in a long-distance relationship?So Far Away…
I have also experienced ‘long-distance’ relationship before. I have no difficulty with that, honestly. Only that I just missed the person but all the rest was just like the same as having your love ones near you.
What makes a long-distance relationship works is an effective and constant communication. Without it, the relationship dies. Even with proximal relationships, communication plays a very vital role. What makes it different is that couples will have to work extra hard to maintain that communication.
Trust is a major necessity. You have to trust each other and avoid jealousy as much as possible. It is a time wasted! Instead, enjoy and value each time you got in expressing your thoughts and planning for the future. It is important to stay positive (though it is easier said than done). Always assume that your partner loves and cares about you.
Long distance relationship requires a ‘joint effort’ in order to survive it. Just like in all other relationships, both couples need a strong foundation of faith, trust, and love. It involves two people who share an interest in each other's lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow.
Surviving a long-distance relationship is a very challenging call and difficult, but not impossible!
What makes a long-distance relationship works is an effective and constant communication. Without it, the relationship dies. Even with proximal relationships, communication plays a very vital role. What makes it different is that couples will have to work extra hard to maintain that communication.
Trust is a major necessity. You have to trust each other and avoid jealousy as much as possible. It is a time wasted! Instead, enjoy and value each time you got in expressing your thoughts and planning for the future. It is important to stay positive (though it is easier said than done). Always assume that your partner loves and cares about you.
Long distance relationship requires a ‘joint effort’ in order to survive it. Just like in all other relationships, both couples need a strong foundation of faith, trust, and love. It involves two people who share an interest in each other's lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow.
Surviving a long-distance relationship is a very challenging call and difficult, but not impossible!
“The most painful love there is, is the love left unshown
A love that cannot be expressed, affection left unknown
The love that withholds touching, afraid of what it would say
And the most painful thing about unexpressed love is... it never fades away”
--Susan Polis Schutz
A love that cannot be expressed, affection left unknown
The love that withholds touching, afraid of what it would say
And the most painful thing about unexpressed love is... it never fades away”
--Susan Polis Schutz
8 comments:
i definitely agree with this post that communication and trust is impt to make a long relationship work,and ciempre LOVE din :)
Yep 'twas my bday back 13th june. we're both gemini pala :) yeay! lol
happy happy belated birthday Jen. GodBlessYou! xoxo
hi jen, me too i've had the experience of a long distance relationship and it worked,... trust and communication are very important in a relationship without it, no relationship can exists - near or far :)
hi jm... thanks for being here in my site...
hi toni... well, cguro kaw idol ko when it comes to long distance relationship... it worked for you... it will work with others as well, as long as both are matured and cooperative enough... nothing is too impossible with LOVE!
thank you guys for having u here in my site!
Yes, It is true for the love one always find time together.
Once your relationship is very strong, I can say " strong foundation " then it will definately bond together, this is call true love.
True love between bien and jen will be forever.
Best wishes from coolingstar9
haha... thanks so much coolingstar9!!!! and hope our friendship is for lifetime as well!!! take care!
being far away from your love is such a very difficult situation but what important is you will still have the communication
hey i remember the song From the Distance
but the song was in related with God but theres somewhat similarities to the song and your sitution
by the way jen i would like to hear words from you in my other blog, all about my created articles and my personal life
www.scene2remember.blogspot.com
HI BLUE... i missed you here...thanks for sharing your thoughts... yup will visit u there in scene to remember! see u there! take care!
hi jen (ang FC ko! lol) .. i can relate in this kind of scene. whew. Long Distance Relationship. Everyone has different views in this kind of situation, majority would say a no-no. but as for me (who is engaged in LDR), nothing really is impossible as long you have a strong foundation and of course the TRUST. instead of being a paranoid kasi nga malayo yung isa, dapat you should both be open of your feelings, and TALK it over. ..
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