Monday, September 8, 2008

Start Right

What does it take to have a healthy love relationship?

A good relationship begins with YOU. This works more efficiently when two partners are focused on a goal of keeping their relationship better than ever before. Ever wonder why some relationship started so sweet then eventually dies? It is because couples have the tendency to become more and more negligent over the years, months or even days of being together. It is not how a relationship progress. It is not right to say “as the relationship grows old”; rather it should be “as the relationship matures”.

I always have this saying in mind… ‘Love with the hottest beginning has the coolest end.’ Love does not develop over time. While it is true that there can be a ‘love at first sight’, still it depends on both partners how to maintain and sustain that love they have first felt from the start.

It is important that partners work together in achieving their goal of making the relationship works for them. It is a combined effort; a shared endeavor for both parties in order to have a “hale and hearty” love relationship. Remember, only selfish people think only of themselves. When you really love yourself, you cannot help wanting to give some of your love away!

What you become, you attract! So, when you want a great love partner, become a great love partner! Like attracts like! Sharing love with someone must only and always begin with YOU. Learn to relate with yourself better!

2 comments:

babycobalt said...

It's really true that when both parties are working hard for the relationship to last, I guess God will bless the love that you are keeping. Since He sees that it's your heart's desire, He will give you all the things you both prayed.. In His right time.

PoOr PrInCe said...

gheeeh how impressive yeah your rogth good relation \ship must start in our selves o my i think i miss alot of you in this past busy days