Yes, hearts are breakable especially when we are in terrible pain! We usually experience that “deep” pain when we have loved too deeply as well! We usually feel like we will never get through the pains! And for us, that’s the most very bad feeling that we will experience in our lives.Most people resist change until they feel that there is nothing else they can do. Change takes courage and effort. You have to do something different. It means taking responsibility for your relationship and being brave enough to take the first step towards change WHILE YOU ARE STILL AFRAID.
Most of the times, a relationship fails because the person has not sought God from the beginning. He or she entered into a relationship carelessly, with no thoughts of self-offering, praying, or waiting for a word from God. Usually, the relationship is self-willed and irresponsible. It is governed primarily of feelings, but true love goes beyond feelings.
What’s so wrong with us is we always thought that we know best! “All a man’s ways seem right to him, but the Lord weighs the heart” - (Proverbs 21:2). When we get ahead of God and try to force things, the consequences are often tragic.
Always remember that God has glorious purpose in permitting heartbreak. One is “that we may reach spiritual maturity” - (James 1:4). It is during this time that we draw near to Him. Our sufferings are not for nothing. Never. However, small that may be, we may see them as God’s mercy in giving us the chance to unite with His own sufferings.
A broken heart is an acceptable offering to God. The trial of faith is a thing worth much more than gold.
Trusting God with your love life is a rigorous daily exercise of FAITH.
Letting GO & Letting GOD!
When all else fails and there is nothing more we can do to bring back the love, trust, and the feelings, then the engagement must come to an end. Better now than after the wedding!
When you are in a relationship with someone and both of you are angry, chaos abounds. Two broken people can’t fix each other! They can only work on the problem. “What is the problem?” You ask? The answer is looking back at you in the mirror. Recovery comes from ceasing to be one of the problems.
A relationship is a commitment. To commit means to give in trust; to put into change; or keeping. It is a deliberate act, a total handling over; a pledge to do something.
When we are experiencing heart breaks, we pray for wisdom, and for something to help our wounded souls.
“The Lord is near to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18
4 comments:
No matter how much love you give into thr relationship; without His guidance and without your prayers, you're relationship is weak. A strong foundation means that He is between the two of you, guiding and strengthening the gift he gave you.
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Jen!! I soo love this post!
Heartbreak is indeed gut wrenching. Love involves making or breaking of a heart. But we can get the most out of a heartbreak positively, which helps us gain more respect for ourselves and more trust in Him who gives us that 'true love' in His time...after letting go of a past one.hehe...I just mended my heart, thats why:-)
enjoy ur weekend Jen and Take care of ur loving heart!
Our love story,
When we are experiencing heart breaks, we pray for wisdom, and for something to help our wounded souls.
Yes, prayer can lead us to the right direction.
It is very important that we need positive mind to overcome all the pains.
Pause for a while and keep on moving because life is great.
wow, i enjoy reading all your comments... am also learning from you, guys! thanks a lot!! : )
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