Thursday, January 15, 2009

WOUNDS That HEAL


I am pretty sure that most of us, if not all, have our own heart breaking stories to tell. We have different heart aches brought about different causes. It may be a loss or a death of a loved one or a break up from a relationship, a betrayal from a trusted friend, loss of job, illness and like.

I can say that I am lucky because I have experienced heart aches. I am not telling this because I am a masochist or I am bitter of my past hurts, but because I experienced how was it to be lost. I have experienced the wonder of failures and heart aches which eventually made me a whole and a better person. Most of all, I am lucky because I have experienced God’s love during the darkest hours of my life.

Sometimes you have to be broken in order to be whole. Sometimes you need to go through a lot of pains and trials before you raise your head up high. I believe that it is through hardships that we become strong emotionally and spiritually!

As I look back, I remember how my sufferings were turned into a wonderful experience. It is when my relationship with God was renewed and even more strengthened. I learned the value of prayers in my life! My understanding and point of view of trials changed when I opened up myself to Him. I learned how to surrender myself to the one above! I am not saying that I am now perfect (nobody’s perfect, anyway) but I am better. I still have lots of craziness and everyday mistakes but I know how it is now to acknowledge and be sorry for them.

Everyday is a struggle and we are being wounded in the process. But wounds do heal in the proper time. Let’s give time for healing! It takes a lot of time, actually! And when we are healed, we will be surprised how we are being changed.

Healing of oneself is best manifested in our ability to comfort others in their desperate moments! When we are ready to give comfort with others, then we see the value of our experiences, be it happy or painful ones! We see ourselves in the person we are comforting and we can relate truly with their feelings… that is sympathy!

While healing takes a lot of time, it is an opportunity to be drawn closer to our ultimate healer! God waits for us to come to Him and call His name. He longs for us and He knows that it is during these times when He is best noticed! So, never give up for God is close to the broken hearted (Psalm 34:18)! It is very inspiring to know that God delivers us from pains if only we turn ourselves to Him and recognize Him and His words! What a loving God we have!

Healing the wounds is a long process but believe me it is indeed a worthwhile experience! In the future, Christ can use your emotional wounds to help others heal!

“Christ was broken for us to comfort the broken among us.”

“Be strong and of good courage… for the Lord your God is with you, wherever you go.”Joshua 1:9

"Our greatest strength is often shown in our ability to stand still and trust God."

"God comforts us . . . that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble."2 Corinthians 1:4

3 comments:

Joan said...

Hello Jen. I miss u and ur site!
This post is quite comforting. Wounds do heal in time. Its hard but that's one of our special gift: letting ourselves hurt and be healed by our own decisions.

-xoxo-

Bluedreamer said...

wounds heal in time..yes
it might not heal immidiately but there should be a specific time for it but of course it is something with preparation and readiness

Our Love Story said...

heyo my dear friends, joan and blue! well, yeah... i wrote this to somehow comfort myself (hehehe)! thank you for being here! Godbless us!