ABC's of Love

A - Absolutely amaze your partner with Adoration. Let them know in very special ways that you care. Exercise extravagant respect and devotion toward your lover. Accept them for who they are. Demonstrate your warm Attachment and Affection to them. Avoid taking your partner for granted. Be Aware of feelings!

B - Believe in your instincts. Be spontaneous. Don’t plan. . . just do something that you’ve wanted to do with your partner for a long time. Let your love occur naturally. Stop and pick a roadside flower and present it to your partner.

C - Cuddle. Lie Close and be Cozy. Just hold each other. There is a very special healing power in a Close, warm embrace. C is also for “Considerate.” Keep Communication open!

D - Discover new ways of expressing your love for each other like hire a skywriter, put a message up on a billboard, buy a radio commercial to say I love you, record a special message on a cassette. Well, even the simplest ways of expressing love are appreciated as long as done whole heartedly! Another very important in a relationship is: Don't LIE!

E - Entice your lover to try a new way of enjoying each other's company. Give time for pleasure. Enjoy each other to the fullest.

F - Flirt for Fun and Frivolity. It's best advised to be Friends with your lover! Your lover should be your best friend, as well! When you get hurt, just Forgive and Forget. Do not dwell on past hurts! Forget about your Pride! When you have a Fight, do not let the day pass without being Fine!

G - Gaze into each other’s eyes with a steady intention to say, “I love you” without words. Smile. Notice the eye color. Say something nice about them. Be Generous with your love. GIVE and take process.

H - Have a private party for just the two of you; candles and music works Be Happy together. Talk. Listen. Express your love for one another.

I - Indulge each other’s desires. Write your secret desires on pieces of paper and trade. You may be surprised.

J - Joke and have fun together. Lighten up. Be Joyous. Release your sense of humor. Have fun with love.

K - Kissy. . . kissy. . . kissy! Give your partner an unexpected, looooooong, juicy kiss. Be Keen on kissing! Show your Kindness to your partner.

L - Love with all your heart and soul. Always remember to speak, “I love you” at least once each day. Express love in new and exciting ways. Remember to love yourself and do nice things for you too.

M - Massage away the day’s tension and stress. A listening partner is helpful. Be sympathetic with your lover's woes. Spend some time without talking about works and pressures.

N - Never talk abour beak-ups! Never say your OK when you're NOT! Nurture your need for nibbling. Nibbling feels good.

O - Offer unexpected surprises your partner might like. Offer her/him a crying shoulder whenever necessary.

P - Pretend you are long-lost, passionate lovers. Use your imagination. Think! What could you do that you haven’t done for a long time? Do that. Don't compare your Past to your Present. Don't talk about your stupid Ex's (hehehe)!

Q - Quote your lover a love poem or a special passage from a book or greeting card that expresses exactly how you feel.

R - Remember the little things. Respect your partner by paying attention. Be aware when your partner’s likes and dislikes. Notice what makes them happy and deliver more of that.

S - Slow dance by candlelight or in the backyard in the moonlight. Get back to romance. Be Sensitive to the romantic needs of your lover. If you say SORRY, mean it!

T - Try a little Tenderness. Be gentle. Practice the “soft touch.” Go slow. Be intentional.

U - Uncover your deepest feelings. Speak them or write them to your lover. Communicate them unwaveringly. Let your emotions express themselves with sensitivity, Understanding and love.

V - Vow your eternal love for each other. Renew your vows. Make some new ones. Look up the word “vow” in the dictionary. Live by your solemn promises.

W - Watch a sunrise or sunset together. Bring a picnic basket with snacks and your favorite beverage. Let the Warmth you feel for your partner be felt.

X - X-plore your romantic dreams. Day dream about this one. Think. X-cellerate. Don’t wait. Do something X-citing together; something you said you would do in the past, but you both have been putting off or making X-cuses about.

Y - Yearn for each other’s touch. Don’t hold back. A hug-a-day pays dividends beyond your wildest imaginings. AND. . . it feels good to be touched by the one you love.

Z - Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz in each other’s arms. Zero in on being close. Touching feels good. Enhance your enjoyment by listening to your partner’s breathing cycle and to their heartbeat. Inhale and exhale together. Become as one.

Remember: Don't be the perfect one... BE THE TRUE ONE!